Spit moment
I refer to things that cause a dramatic immediate change, or full stop in my life as "spit moments". Here's the story why, Before I met Mike, I was talking to a guy I really liked, He had a lot of great qualities and similar belief system to my own at the time. One day we went to the mall and bought chocolates at Godiva together, I took a bite of one and said "this is delicious, you've got to try it!" and his response was a grossed out "no, it has your spit on it" Complete stop, cue indignation and a slew of thoughts like "seriously? he can't be serious? is he joking?" He was serious, he was grossed out by spit, MY spit, being on a delicious chocolate truffle. In that moment everything changed completely because I knew who I was as a person and that a boy being grossed out by my spit would not fit into the type of future I wanted for my life. Yes, I did immediately think about sex being a HUGE problem, if my spit grossed him out wh...